Singapore night festival 2013
Saturday, August 31, 2013, 12:40 PM
Sooo it's like just after the exams; rachel and i went to the Singapore Night Festival! There were activities along smu and bras basah all night, with really beautiful decorations all over. There was even this tree that i wished i could bring home.
There were so many activities that we couldn't make it for everything (or most of the things) and we just went all over randomly, touring the museum and getting take-outs from a nice restaurant. Mashed potatoes, veal sausages and wine. so good +_+ pictures don't do the event justice.
i was feeling pretty ill, but my little pumpkin cheered me up with her cute face ._. She bought a really adorable looking flower band at the arts market in chjimes.
See i wouldn't have known about this event if not for rachel and jean. #pinder
'cause look what you have done to me
21 questions!
Tuesday, July 30, 2013, 10:55 AM
because someone asks me to; 1. What was your favorite Halloween costume and why?
Actually only had one real Halloween party that i bothered to dress up for. It was a maroon suit that i rented with a black shirt, and a devil's mask (i was way fitter then), and i really liked it. i felt intimidating and mysterious and it was fun all around at the party. 2. If you could have dinner with any three people from any time, fictional or non-fictional, who would they be and why?
They would be God, Steve Jobs and Bill Gates. God is there to explain to me why on earth is there so much hurt on this planet, and how are we going to save it. And justify why do all those kids have leukemia, and deserve to suffer every moment from birth to death at the age of 8. Steve Jobs is there to explain to me how does he organize, create and market great products, basically product design and marketing. I want Bill Gates to teach me everything he knows about computers and programming, and tell me how can i be a programming genius. (Maybe God can assist us too in this matter).
3. If you could be invisible, where would you go and what would you do?
I would rob several banks and start up my own weapons research and manufacturing company, and i would hunt down all the people who create pain and suffering in this world; all the osamas, drug cartels, triads, warlords and end them.
4. If your life was turned into a movie, what actor would play you?
Idk how to answer this because i don't know 98% of celebrities ._. i like Ryan Gosling though because he's so ridiculously good-looking, and masculine. i want to look like a manly manne.
so hamsum.
5. What made you laugh the hardest in your entire life?
Although i laugh a lot, i can't actually think of anything that made me laugh really hard. I probably did, but i just forgot it ._. 6. What's your favorite childhood memory?
I'll take childhood as like in primary school, i probably had several really good memories. This might not have been the best, but i really liked it when we had a cub scout camp activity thing, where we would camp in Sentosa's Underwater World. And when we had to sleep, they set-up foldable beds along the travellator pathways, single-file style, and you would sleep under the entire galleria of fish and marine creatures at night. It was the most amazing thing ever. It felt magical. 7. What's the worst lie you ever told? Did you get caught?
Worst is subjective. One of the really bad ones was that i told a girl i loved her, and it turned out i didn't and it wasn't a proper, decent breakup. 8. If you suddenly found yourself turned into a woman, how would you spend your day?
LOL really bad things i guess. Maybe some shopping and making sure i look pretty. Then i'd hit the clubs. 9. How do you handle people you don't like?
Usually the people i don't like fall under the stupid or evil category , and i just shut them out of my world completely, depending on how bad it is. For the really bad cases, i just shut them out completely. I don't even want to be near them :( stupid people make me frustrated and sad sometimes. 10. Would you rather be smart and ugly or dumb and beautiful?
As a guy, smart and ugly i guess. Girls can be dumb and beautiful. I don't want to sound anti-feminist, but its how the world works. 11. If you could get three wishes what would it be? Why?
1. Have complete control of all the fundamental forces and physics, like Doctor Manhattan. So i can create elements at will and build vast, intricate things, and create life (possibly?)
2. Immortality. Living forever would allow me to experiment and create forever.
3. Have the ability to weave love into humanity. (Even god can't do this)
12. If you could change your name, would you leave it or change it?
I won't change it because i'm chinese. If i was born Caucasian, i would name myself something extremely gentlemanly and english, like Charles, or something greek like Hercules or Archimedes. 13. Which part of a girl’s body do you think tattoos look best?
hips/lower hips.
14. If you could be anything in the world, what would you be?
a bird, to fly far far away from terrible things, a free bird. 15. What one thing would you change about this world if you had unlimited power?
Fix the planet and its people. this world needs more love. 16. What would you do if you saw a man assaulting a woman and no one else was intervening?
I would wake up to the man and ask him "what the fuck are you doing man?". wrestle him if he doesn't stop and apologize. I figure the "assault" to be like a case of domestic abuse? If its a real assault, prepare to fight lool. (i'll probably find a makeshift weapon if he is of a bigger build than me). 17. What is your idea of a perfect evening?
Finishing up work and going home to my beautiful house and perfect girl, lie in the bed tickling her and telling her stories, holding her to sleep in my arms. If its a date, then my idea of perfect evening is just too amazing and complex to be even summed up in a single post; i suppose that's something for another time. 18. If your best friend was doing something dangerous, would you tell someone in authority?
Uh. it really depends on what thing it is, and how dangerous it is, or if its terribly wrong/immoral. If its fun i would probably join in P: 19. What would you do if you witnessed bullying and everyone else was just laughing?
I would break the crowd and stand up for the bullied guy. Has happened before, more than once. 20. What would you do if you saw a stray dog in danger of being hit by a car?
i'll probably wave my hands frantically at the driver to make him stop. but i'm sorry i'm not gonna give my life up for a dog ._. all dogs go to heaven anyway. 21. What would you do if an elderly neighbor who wasn't very nice needed help?
Help? Its actually important to help out elderly people ._. really important. We'll all grow old one day.
'cause look what you have done to me
Improv Everywhere Singapore - the mp3 experiment!
Saturday, July 27, 2013, 11:30 PM
the mp3 experiment
So Rachel and I went to the Improv Everywhere Singapore - mp3 experiment thingy! Other than spending a day out with my little pumpkin, one of the main reasons we went there was to do a little groundwork and gauge the response for pinder's open event categories; Eric was kinda excited about the whole thing too, but he couldn't go soooo i took a bunch of pics for evidence. The turnout was rather good, considering its lack of publicity; about a thousand participants were in the area, falling within the 16-24 years old range.
the initial warm-up phases P:
I gotta say that the whole thing was a pretty amazing experience; I haven't participated in a real flash mob, and even though i wasn't fully participating (i was running around taking pictures and abandoning my little angel ;_;) it was really fun and awesome to watch so many people have fun together. Twitter is amazing at showing this, even after the entire event, #sgmp3 tagged tweets were filled with pictures of people enjoying themselves, meeting strangers, making new friends and having fun.
There was even a segment where you had to take pictures with strangers and stuff, and it showed that Singaporeans, especially the younger generation really entertains the idea of socializing, collaborating together with strangers and their community in general. Another surprising thing is that how comfortable were people of different ages and races could come together to enjoy themselves and cause a scene. Eric thinks its a great sign and we could probably make something like pinder work, and its a little morale booster for us, confirming our ideas.
After the whole thing, we went around sentosa a little and had dinner and goofed around the place before finally heading home. I promised rachel that one of these days when we have more time and less things to worry about we'd spend a full day at sentosa together (i've been planning a whole list of fun and silly things to do there on an entire day since a while back), but i'm so caught up with everything lately.
I just want to hug her all day :( She understands that we have a lot of work to do though. i can't promise that pinder will work, but through it or not; We're gonna change the world forever, and make it a better place, like what we witnessed today.
'cause look what you have done to me
Wednesday, July 24, 2013, 12:36 PM
i got a little alpaca for rachel! it looks kinda cute. the bowtie's mine even.
'cause look what you have done to me
Carousell
Tuesday, July 23, 2013, 10:20 AM
So i had a huge project that i had to do alone in school because some people bailed on the team :/ soooo luckily rachel was here to help me out with the prep and everything @_@. We went to ghim moh market for breakfast where she tried the super awesome chwee kueh +_+ the mee pok stall was closed by then and all the other good food stores had massive queues so we didn't bother with them :( another time will have to do :/
After that we went to Art Friend and did some shopping at jem before finally heading over to np @_@ i bought a face paint stick to rub it on her face loool.
rachel after a long day out LOL.
the crowd was pretty decent, considering the amount of marketing i did in school, and the Carousell team and the vendors were all pretty satisfied with the results and turnout. I made a friends with most of the vendors, who were mostly from NUS, and even talked to some of them regarding pinder. They were pretty impressed and most of them said that they would use the service, and it sounds really fun, and even gave me a little advice on marketing and stuff. There was this polaroid photobooth activity that i had in the event, where students would take polaroids with Carousell's collaterals; and these are some of them I kept (double copies for Carousell's main blog):
A ton of unfortunate incidents happened that day, luckily i wasn't too worked up and i could do a little crisis management to mitigate most of the stuff (e.g. Estate Management Offices completely messing up due to staff reorganization; they came down to do a formal apology later even). A huge load off my mind. Couldn't have done it without rachel, Mike, Sebastian and the rest who helped me with the booth and stuffs; amazing people.
'cause look what you have done to me
pew pew
Monday, July 8, 2013, 9:26 AM
Yessa i find these entertaining and destressing.
1. First thing you wash in the shower?
HAIR. top-down. gravity rules.
2. Are you more of a coffee or alcohol drinker?
alcohol. i haven't met liquor that i actually hate a lot. i hate coffee.
3. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
Yessa.
4. Do you plan outfits? Sometimes. but mostly i see what i have and work with it, before running out of the house.
5. How are you feeling right now?
Tired and exhausted, but mostly okay.
6. Whats the closest thing to you thats red?
A book titled: Lee Kwan Yew's Memoirs. lolol
7. What would you do if you opened your door and saw a dead body?
Say: "holy shit!!". and calmly examine the body for loot.
8. Tell me about the last dream you remember having?
Uhh i was with an old friend of mine getting motherfuckin' TOM YUM SPAGHETTI at outram.
9. Three of your current feelings?
Idk how to answer this. is tired a feeling? it is right? because i feel tired.
10. What are you craving right now?
motherfuckin' TOM YUM SPAGHETTI (actually not so much). More of grilled salmon belly with cold, sushi rice, and cold sake. and nuggets.
11. Turn ons?
the list would be very, very long. Thankfully, i'm not into those extreme fetishes or really strange/creepy ones (as far as i've been told).
15. If you could be a superhero, who would you want to be?
DOCTOR MANHATTAN.
16. Did the one person who hurt you most in your life apologize?
not yet :(
17. Do you bite into your ice cream or just lick it?
depends on the ice cream.
18. Favorite movie ever?
I really, really like many movies. I can't really put down one movie lol. i love star wars though, epic space opera classic.
19. Do you like yourself? idk how to answer this.
20. Have you ever met a celebrity? yeah a few local ones. gurmit singh. etc.
21. Could you handle being in the military? totally. but i'll probably get really angry and frustrated at everything because the systems and people there are going to be pretty stupid.
22. What are you listening to right now?
The Walk - Mayer Hawthorne. its so good. its like new-age soul.
23. How many countries have you visited? a few. America was the best.
24. Are your parents strict? yeah.
25. Would you go sky diving? yes i would really want to go skydiving. in a car. i'm not even kidding.
26. Would you go out to eat with George W. Bush?
lool i guess?
27. Whats on your mind right now? thinking how nice would it be if i could play a musical instrument. like a violin or a piano :/
28. Is there anything you want to say to someone? yeah to a lot of people. how much i love them.
29. Have you ever been in a castle? yeah i rescued princess peach @_@
30. Do you rent movies often? there's some other place on the internet i get movies temporarily from.
31. Whats your zodiac sign? A monkey!
32. When was the last time you had sex? loooooool.
33. Name five facts about yourself. 1. i like pizza. 2. i like physics. 3. i like girls. 4. i like colors. 5. i like giving surprises.
34. Ever had a near death experience? If so, what happened? i was in a two-man canoe in Indonesia with Eric and the thing flipped. Eric managed to get out of the canoe, but i was stuck under. I think i almost lost consciousness and saw golden rays of sunlight on the edge of the water and managed to slip out from under the canoe.
35. Do you believe in karma or predestiny? karma yes.
36. Brown or white eggs? White ._.
37. Do you own something from Hot Topic? nope ._.
38. Ever been on a train? MRT EVERY DAY.
39. Ever been in love? clearly. every day.
40. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you do it? loool sure.
41. If you could trade places with any person living or dead, who would you trade places with?
Mark Zuckerberg?
42. If you could shorten your life expectancy by 10 years to become more attractive, would you do it?
idk. depends on how old i am i guess.
43. Whom do you admire and why? Commander Han, Eric. He's an incredible guy who keeps on giving, while performing at his apex lol. Real discipline. He considers me his equal ;-;
44. What was your favorite bedtime story as a child? idk.
45. You’re walking down the street, you come across a burning building. A woman says her baby is trapped inside, what would you do? 3 options: 1. Call the fuckin' fire brigade 2. Get water or sand to try and reduce the fire. 3. Find something to protect myself with (carpet or something), douse it with water (if i have) and get in to attempt to look for the baby. Its kind of stupid to run into the building ungeared if its on fire. the smoke would probably do a lot of harm to you and block vision, not to mention the fire all over. Chances are that you'll catch fire/ be poisoned by the smoke and become another casualty. there's a difference between being a hero and an idiot, son.
46. If you could choose the future profession of your son or daughter, would you? A doctor. Doctors are amazing and they help people and the world so much ._.
47. What was your best experience on drugs or alcohol? Getting dead drunk and watching the bitches party and dance. joey was there tooo; she was sooo high.
48. What was your worst experience on drugs or alcohol? puking on Chinese New Year's period where we drank at chevron's.
50. As your walking down the street you find a suitcase full of money sitting next to a parked car, would you take it? Yes. I'll take it and get into a cab straight away, home.
51. If you found that a close friend has AIDS, would you still hang out with them? Yes. No kissing/making out or sex please.
52. In front of you are 10 pistols, 5 of which are loaded. If you survive you’d receive 100 million dollars. Would you be willing to place 1 to your head and pull the trigger? nah. it seems like a bad deal. i think i'd be able to make the 100 million eventually.
53. How old were you when you lost your virginity? 18.
54. Do you believe in ghosts, werewolves or vampires? lol no.
55. If you could live forever, would you want to? Yes. do physics and research and fun things all day.
56. Which fictional movie character most resembles who you are? huh idk lol.
58. If they were to televise a live execution, would you watch it? i have better things to do lol.
59. If you could be the president of the USA, would you be willing to do it? yes it would be so fun. i don't think the president's life is so stressful tbh. his job is just to do decision making, where the options and solutions are normally given to him through his cabinet and circle of knights/generals. But they get all the blame when things go wrong.
60. If you could choose the sex of your unborn child, would you want to? Yes. a girl. she'd be so pretty and cool lol.
61. Would you rather live longer or be wealthy? $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
'cause look what you have done to me
the great gatsby
Friday, June 14, 2013, 3:50 AM
Watched the great gatsby with her, and i really really liked it. it reminds me of how hard i am supposed to work, in order to one day achieve my dreams, and then to bring about the endgame. it was just all around-spectacular, kind of like a broadway show (a little). Oh, the things men do for women.
"Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that’s no matter—tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther. And then one fine morning—So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past. " - F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby
'cause look what you have done to me
freedom and demons
Tuesday, March 5, 2013, 10:49 AM
i just woke up from some dream that i got into a fight and after i've almost beaten the other dude, he punched me so hard that my right molars came off. That was terrible.
The last few weeks and the entire month of February has been really weird and confusing even for me. I've not been getting sleep or been sleeping too much, dealing with issues that i haven't had in so long. And to be honest, some of these things scare me a little. It's been too long since i've really thought of actually going into a relationship - always thought that the whole moving across the big pond was my endgame and all i wanted to do was to build the boat. I still need to build the boat, but everything and everyone's too distracting. And it doesn't help that all the different underlying issues have to be all dug up at once, especially right before my finals. Its like getting my molars sucker punched.
Its been a really tough month and some things that i never saw coming have suddenly become big things in a span of a few weeks. I don't know if its a good thing, because i don't even know if i'm ready for this. I thought the boat was important, now i don't even know if we want to cross the sea. Everything feels really messy now, interfering with the original plan of having fun after building the boat. Yet it seems to be a good thing. I'm so mixed and confused. I don't even know what i want now and i feel so frustrated and tired because of that.
The soul, heart and mind all want different things, i think i need to sit down and think this whole thing through.
And i think having terrible relationships just drives you insane. the whole "emotional baggage" thing in himym - its so true. So bogged down by what happened between that little bitch and me. Not angry, just confused over what should have been done and what i should do. There's this sweet girl, i really don't wanna mess things up with her, or lose her friendship because of all the stupid things i'm gonna do.
Fighting fourteen years of demons, i think i'll be fine. Maybe all i need is a little more time.
'cause look what you have done to me
Valentines' day
Wednesday, February 13, 2013, 11:49 PM
Happy Valentines' Day guys.
Hopefully you have fun or find someone nice to spend time with!
I'll probably be alone, with a beer or something. maybe some cake. I wish i had time to make a minecraft heart too :/ Maybe i'll go watch a movie or something. Eh i thought of something nice to do for a real valentines' day, something epic. I'll save it for next year, where maybe things are a little different, hopefully.
Photo courtesy of marcus tay
'cause look what you have done to me
Valentines' day pre-empt
Tuesday, February 5, 2013, 5:04 AM
Valentines' Day Incoming. boo.
I'm going to like do this stupid questionnaire thing. A friend sent me this on tumblr and its been a really long while since i've done something like this. This is probably going to be gay as fuck, but i'm going to do it. School and work has been killing me and this would help me turn off a bit. Please don't read this if you know you're going to die reading it. Thanks. I'm still manly as fuck.
P.S: Mother, if you've managed to reach here, please respect my privacy and NOT read this.
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
Uhhh. Yes ma'am!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
Yeah totally.
3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
more than a year i guess. does ldr count?
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
Yeah. Actually idk if its for someone. more like just changed.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
some good. some bad.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
might have? idk. don't think so though.
7: Have you ever cheated?
Well. Not really. Maybe a bit. (Just a bit) I thought she was cheating.
8: Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?
No way. Nope.
9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
Hugging. And like being fun and silly with each other.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Both. I used to think that flings are great. until i realized that i get attached to certain things way too easily.
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”?
I suppose if its really necessary. But these breaks won't work out, and eventually it'll be for real.
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
lolol
13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Playing too many games, and being oblivious to her sadness. i have AS, damnit. girls are good at hiding.
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
18 lol. BUT USE PROTECTION FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. But i don't think it matters. Marriage is good too.
15: Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?
Yeah. unless its like a 40-year gap then it doesn't really make sense.
16: Do you believe in “love at first sight”?
Yes and no. Chinese people always say "gan qing shi pei yang de", feelings are developed over time.
17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
very, very unlikely. actually i think falling in love is possible, but not real love lol, unless you meet the other party in person.
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
uhh if she is not spontaneous and boring.
19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship? You'll know it lol. My last breakup - watching some tv show where 2 of the main characters were breaking up and it was pretty sad, but necessary. Felt so strongly about it and checked my bag for my phone. Took out my phone, saw a message. "we need to talk" from her. It was overwhelming. I really wanted out too. I tried to dump her twice, only to get her asking to hold on. Met her, we talked about it, we decided to end things, and it felt great after. Its a giant relief when you know its all over.
20: Are you currently in a relationship? Nope.
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
Yeah i suppose. But it's hard.
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I used to think not. Until recently when i've seen some interesting things happen. I think its great. I mean everyone starts off as friends right? Unless you date the people you hookup with in clubs or meet in bars. whatever that floats your boat i guess. Friends, you know them better, they know you better. Less mystery, but more connection and love right? Its hard to connect with strangers.
23: How many relationships have you had?
2-3?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
Yeah. I believe in fairy tales.
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
Yes. You know what the greatest physicist on earth said? Richard Feynman said, "Physics isn't the most important thing, love is" (or something like that, can't remember the exact quote)
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?
Hell no.
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
i'll make it two: 1. YOUR INSECURITIES WILL KILL YOU. Remove all of them. they're for pussies. 2. Don't play too much games or date girls who play games a lot (not video games). It's bad and you're courting the devil.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work? I think its really hard.
29: What do you notice first about another person? Eyes, lips, hair and energy level*.
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual? Straight as a razor.
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness? Definitely not. What are words if they're only for good times?
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Nah. I'll never abuse. I've heard stories though from others.
33: Do you want to get married one day? Yes. Remember the fairy tale thingy i was talking about earlier? My wedding's going to be legendary.
34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed? Well if i marry her, love her dearly and be like 10 years into the marriage. Then i'd have my daughter(s) too if its necessary. LOL. i know it sounds stupid, but i've got a ton of space on my skin. Actually, hell i would do it if we're married. But it seems a little too obsessive, even for me. Want tats though.
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex? If she really wants to wait for marriage then i'm cool with that.
36: Are you still a virgin?
my mother could be reading this (i'm not even kidding), so yes (or not?)
37: What’s more important: Looks or personality?
Both almost as important LOL. i'd think personality actually. I'll die with a pretty girl who has a piece of coal for her heart.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
Yeah kinda. Bonus if with a girl. (NOT GIRLS*)
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Of course. I tend to give single ones though. I think its simpler and just more awesome. Bouquets are also so bulky and awkward to carry around for her. Unless there's carriage or its a special day. I think it makes sense to have variety in quantity for certain occasions, but randomness is valued. Damn, i'm such a scientist.
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
Valentine as in a date/girlfriend on valentines' day right? Then yes of course.
41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?
wow if i had to explain here it'll take about 40 screens to cover finish. you cannot imagine what goes on inside my mind lol. There are like rainbows, balloons, chocolates, flash mobs, orchestras, music, jet planes, alpacas, boats, air ships, obama playing the violin and so on. I'll get the money one day. I promise.
42: Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”?
Uhh i think when i was much younger? Can't remember shit now though. except for the parts where people fight and the dude fakes death and the girl kills herself or something.
43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends?
Both. Depends on who and who if i had to make a choice really.
44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”?
Yes and i've been told.
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Yeah.
46: Have you ever been “friendzoned”?
idk. i honestly don't believe this actually works. more like no attraction. i don't care anyway.
47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite?
idk i don't follow. I know one couple though where both the guy and the girl are really derp and are nice people. a bit jelly of their relationship LOL. like low maintenance, yet high levels of companionship. dunno how to explain and don't understand. somebody tell meh how these things work.
48: What’s your favorite love song?
i feel gay-er the moment i see this question. Lucky i guess? (FRIENDS <- SEE)
49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
I think yes. i feel really bad though. then i fix it with bandages, along with a warm cup of hot beverage and a ton of love.
50: If you’re single, why do you think you are?
i'm single i guess. kinda. too fat and too busy. Pinder.
51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag/bitch or someone who’s poor but a nice girl/guy?
Money shouldn't be a problem for guys.
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
I suppose. I helped a few dudes get girlfriends.
53: Are you jealous of couples when you’re single? Not jealous lol. more like envious and i feel a little like it would be great to have someone to hug kind of thing. Sometimes a little of the whole "something's missing here" feeling. Fuck all of you who haven't gone through breakups or like separation.
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)? have never done this before, the whole social media thingy.
55: Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”? overly attached sometimes lol.
56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship? Hmm. no.
57: Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart? Yes. dafuq.
58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship? Both. but i'm pretty democratic.
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary? uhh. tbh i have a really bad memory and i did forget something once. Hell hath no fury like a girl scorn. I've been keeping a notebook ever since.
60: What’s your opinion on open relationships? Its like friendship i think. A little more than friendship, a little less than a romantic relationship. its weird.
61: Who’s more important: Your partner or your family? The same. my partner's my family.
62: How do you define “cheating”? REALLY??
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate? lolwut idk. no i think.
64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated? Kinda. every date feels like a valentines' date to me (unless i'm fucking exhausted, that's another story) edit: more like i think we can have valentines' date all days of the year whenever we want right? isn't that fun/funny?
65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”? I think by this point i've had validated the fact that hugging is perhaps the best thing ever.
eh maybe i'll get a date for valentines' day. Anything can happen. Oh right i have an exam on that day. Fuck me.